is this okay ?

Savannah - posted on 08/10/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )




My boyfriend and I are very different but soo much alike ; I've become very open with the fact that I lost a child . I've realized its hard to talk about but so much harder to hold in . My baby's father is the only person I really have to talk to things about but he isn't really open about exactly how he feels , I know he misses and loves his daughter but I feel like his feelings are totally different than mine , like it doesn't hurt him as much or like it hurts me . Is that normal ?


Katherine - posted on 08/10/2012




He probably just has a different way of dealing with it. I would ask him. Maybe he doesn't want to talk about it. Maybe you should tell him that you need to and if he doesn't to say so. Ignoring it may be his only defense which IS normal.

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