Is this right???

Kristina - posted on 07/02/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )

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My 4 yr old stepsons mom keeps telling him that if he is gone to long he will break her heart because she will miss him. And that he CAN'T play games at mine and his dad's house because we won't let him because she don't want him to. I don't know what to do? Does anyone have advice? Thanks

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This is an issue between your husband & his ex in regard to joint parenting. Sad to say, but while you obvsiously care for this boy very much, the mother is not required to listen to a damn word you have to say.

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Tamara - posted on 07/02/2011

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I agree this is a place for your husband to step up and talk to her.

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That's just wrong. My kids just left yesterday for 4 weeks at their dad's. They haven't seen him in 6 months. Yes, I mentioned that I will miss them a ton, but I completely emphasized the fact that they will have a LOT of fun and that I will see them soon.



Playing mind games w/ a 4 year old is just sick. Have your husband talk to her asap.... if she won't listen, maybe he should think about getting the courts involved. That is not right to do w/ that poor boy. :(

Firebird - posted on 07/02/2011

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Your husband needs to talk to this woman and set her straight because this is completely unacceptable.

Katherine - posted on 07/02/2011

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You need to talk to HER. She shouldn't be telling your poor SS about this. I would definitely confront her on this and tell her that it's really stressing him out.

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