Bri - posted on 07/09/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
Im really tired of the BM onemonth wanting to be around my SK he is very young. DS6 tells BM during her half of summer time visits..that he gets punished at our home if he calls me Breanne (my real name) he tells BM he is forced to call me "mommy." Fiance said to SK on phone there is NO WAY im not going to call her Mommy to you when Breanne (me) has earned the title of Mommy. The phone call ended right there. Im lost of what to do.
I do feel I do more than the BM. She does pay child support so she isnt a "deadbeat," when it comes to C/S.
But coming and going out of your childs life isnt cool by me.
I know fiance makes it hard on her to see SK only becuz she causes drama whereever she goes. I dont know what to feel anymore.
BM made it hard for my fiance to call everyday to say HI
My fiance constantly asked welfare questions to SK! Thus leading my SK to "hang up," on my fiance.
Fiance now tells him HE IS GOING to be doing more chores at our house when he returns this Sunday. BM is making deseperate attempts of getting custody of my SK! Police reporting for "stalking," and "harrassment."
We call BM by her name to my SK when talking "about his BM." Fiance says BM doesnt deserve or is entitled to refer to her as "mommy," simply because he has custody (majority) and shes not around - I am!
SK is just constantly hanging up (or so to say prolly BM is!) and refusing to talk to my fiance his BD who has raised him since 15months! I met DS at 2 1/2 and now he is 6 so a good 4 yrs....I just want this BM out of my life and can't wait. Leaving my FIANCE is not an option, but it was SO nice when BM was gone and not active.:) Now she is coming around and trying to obtain custody and go to court before school starts this next school year!