Its normal to feel bad but it shall pass.

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Some women recieve child support because they really need it for their chid/children. The ones that do it because he dont want you anymore. shame on you. NOw for the moms that need tthe money to take care of their child whether it be clothes, food, bills, toys, movies etc. do and continue doing what you have to do. If the dad was in the same household he would still be paying the same thing. You may feel bad at times but it shall pass. If he doesnt want to see the child because of it shame on him. That young lady or man will get older and may or may not want to approach him. Especially if you cant afford to care for him alone and your working and on a budget. Take care and be strong

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Krystal-Tess - posted on 07/20/2013

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i havent ever figured out why people care so much about how other people spend their money.

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WHat position did you feel you put your daughter in? Why doesnt he pay child support? i understand he hasnt seen her, this is something we moms have to deal with at times hopefully hed come around and see their kids but keep strong and continue being the best mom you can be. She sees you are and love and respect you for that.

VERONICA - posted on 07/19/2013

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MY YOUNGEST DAUGHTER IS 13 AND HER FATHER HAS NEVER MET HER.
DOES NOT PAY CHILD SUPPORT.
I HATE I PUT MY BABY IN THIS SITUATION.

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