Surfandsea - posted on 01/02/2014 ( 72 moms have responded )
I am 48, married to a wonderful 38 yr old man. We have been married for a year, and prior to me he ha a relationship with a young girl who he has a baby with. They started dating when she was 18 or 19 and he was 33 or so. This fact alone makes me sick to my stomach. He also has a son with her that is two. In the very first days that we started our relationship, he sent her a text that said that he wanted to come over to her apartment and join her in bed. At first he tried to tell me that it wasn't what he meant, but eventually he told me something like it was familiar and he had just met me. This still bothers me to this day, and I often think about it and the fact that my grown up husband slept with a teenager and that he has a baby with her. She doesn't bother us or anything but just the fact the he was with her bothers me.
Also, she is on welfare, food stamps, housing, and works part time. I am a career woman with a full time position, own home , and get nothing that I don't pay for myself.