Annmarie - posted on 08/21/2014 ( 9 moms have responded )
My son just turns 20. The situation with my son is, he doesn't want to get a 5 to 8 job. He wanted a job where he can go to whenever he needs money. When he gets paid, which is not enough, he would buy weeds, and hang out with friends until it's finish. Then he would asked me is mom, is sister, and others for money. My son drops out of college, and I solve the problem and get him back in, and he dropped out again. He is lazy, and only want quick money. He doesn't want to work. My son major is video production, but he is going into the wrong direction in succeeding, and I don't know what to do. He moved out, and live with a woman 2 times is age, but return because I heard that she is tired of supporting him. Now he is here giving me a hard time because, now I am stress just seeing him in my house, and he is not trying to change. All families, and friends spoke with him, but he is so stubborn. We all suggested other career he could start so he could put himself together, so he could accomplish is goal in what he really wanted. Please help, any suggestion is helpfully. Now I am getting very uncomfortable with him here because he has a short temper, especially when trying to suggest the right thing I have 2 other children, who are really on their games. My oldest son is in the police force, and married. My daughter the 2nd child is an Ex-ray Tech, and working. Also, she is supporting herself through college. So the youngest one is giving me a hard time. I tried to reach out so many times, but have not succeeded. All I wanted for my son is the best.