joint custody problems help please

Kailee - posted on 01/28/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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my son is 25 months old and me and his father split up when he was about 5 months old his father gets him Fridays till Mondays i have him from Monday to Friday and he has been off his soother for over a month and i have asked his father a few times to take him off of it, and he doesn't listen he says he needs it still but hes been fine without it and talking a lot more.
now im potty training and my son is doing amazing at it, when hes at my house but again his dad doesn't want to bother in helping me out what should i do about this i feel that im doing it all on my own

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Rebecca - posted on 01/28/2013

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My ex refuses to do anything I say regarding out daughter cause he knows better. So he thinks. It's so frustrating. Especially at your little ones age cause teaching them new things u need to be so consistent.mafter a week you would nearly have it all sorted only to have to start all over again arrrh. I know honey but hang in there.

Kailee - posted on 01/28/2013

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thank you so much, and i understand its my first time on this site to, and your right it is really hard having joint custody

Rebecca - posted on 01/28/2013

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I have similar problems. The only way I can work it out is to really focus on tell you bf that you really need to be on the same page. Explain the problems you have and all you want is for your baby to grow and develop normally even though the situation is not ideal. Sorry if I sound silly this is my first time using the site and writing a reply. I really hope you get this resolved. I have 11 yo girl with joint custody and 7 mo boy full custody these problems have been going on for years. Your not alone I think all separated parents have the same issues,

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