Jane - posted on 03/02/2014 ( 6 moms have responded )
Ok, I just found out I'm 13 weeks pregnant.
The thing is I have been drinking up to 3 glasses of red wine every night pretty much, up until I found out.
The reason why I didnt expect to be pregnant (at all !!! ) , was because my husband is 99.9% Infertile , we've gone through IVF five times for the past 2 years, and each time was a fail and After each time I'd fall into a terrible depression (but even then I didnt drink). But now I find out Im preg 13 weeks and shoked, (I didnt and still dont have any symptoms ) the only reason I found out was bcause I had a planned check up ( 2 months after IVF its done usually) . Ive read everywhere that too much alcohol harms the baby and my baby is doomed, I dont know what to do!!!!! I will never drink again!!! 3-4 glasses of red wine a night up until 13 weeks, is all the harm done? cant I keep my baby ?
Maybe you know someone who had a healthy child born even after drinking so much (for a fetus) .