just found out im 7 weeks pregnent but how do i tell my family and 3 year old girl

Hailey - posted on 10/24/2011 ( 6 moms have responded )

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im a good mum i know iam she is bright and cleaver she wants for nothin okey so she dosnt see her real dad but sees his mum and dad she has a great man in her life who has been with me since she was 6 months old and he works 12 hrs a day for us gets us everythin and been a great dad ive just found out im pregnent im worred as me and my family are close but they think if i have another child that means my 3 year old will be left out and thats not the case she wouldnt let us leave her out she is miss bossy boots and knows how to get her own way :) i think she will love it healpin me out and havin a new play friend i also have a puppy so cnt have him left out lol he is my bby to but i need advice on how to tell my family im 7 weeks so i still think its early but my bf thinks i should tell them but i know what they will say im stupid and i should waited till she was older pls help :) i want to be excited as when my 3 year old was born i had social sevices on my bk to add WAS NOT FOR ME HER DAD !! thts y he dosnt see her but i dnt have them anymore so i have a care free life im excited about this one bein diffrent and having a great man and not being worred about anythin pls help

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September - posted on 10/24/2011

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Congratulations! :) Personally, I would just tell them, you're an adult. Good luck!

Hailey - posted on 10/24/2011

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i now but if u new my family ud now y haha expecially when i take my daughter around there she is a lil madam so think i cnt handle her lol but hey all 3 year olds are the same

Toni - posted on 10/24/2011

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Congrats on the new baby!!! Yes, you should be excited. People, especially family are going to think whatever they want. You can't please everyone. Your child, your unborn child and your boyfriend come first. Rest of family second. So, breath and enjoy the good life, sounds like you deserve it. By the way, this is a perfect opportunity to tell your family your old enough to make your own decisions and that you would like they're support not negative feedback. It's a joyous occasion.

Sharlene - posted on 10/24/2011

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Hi . god bless you darls and everything will be fine. all the best fingers crossed

Hailey - posted on 10/24/2011

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thanks :) i have the docs on wedsday so gonna wait till then dosnt seem real till u have a scan in your hands lol :)

Sharlene - posted on 10/24/2011

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Hi , first of CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!! just sit your husband down and tell him his going to be daddy again and tell the great news, then your 3 yr old try to explain it to them by maybe saying your going to be a big sister/or brother mummys having ababy so your going to help me and be the big sis/or brother try to involve them as much even going to see the O/B and ultra sounds and keep reminding them there going to be sibling as to the family I would'nt really worry about just as long you's get the hole family involve they would probably appreciate that ,All the best with new baby and Im pretty sure your family will be fine darls

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