Darlene - posted on 07/09/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )
My daughter just turned 16 four months ago and just started dating 2 months ago. She just informed me last night that she has had sex. My heart dropped cause I never suspected that she would do it at this age, She is very church orientated and is an A student while holding down a job which she got promoted to assistant manger where she works. And also her best friend recently had a very bad experience with sex so I thought she had learned from that but her friend was around when it happened and I thought because of her experience she would discourage her from doing it. I tried to be understanding because I got pregnant with her at 17 but I can't help but be hurt and disappointed. I have always been really close to all my children so I didn't freak out but I'm confused about how to handle this news, She is the oldest of three girls and one boy. Please help me.