Christina - posted on 10/26/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )
I stumbled across this website by typing into google, "How to deal with an Ex that you hate". It's bad to hate anyone but that is the only word I can think of to use to describe the way he makes me feel. The only reason he is in my life is because we have 2 children together. I had a 1yr old daughter at the time we met. Her father was killed in an auto accident before she was born. My ex now has claimed my daughter as his own to this day. She is now 16 and doesn't want anything to do with him. He's mean to her and since our other 2 children were born, he hasn't been much support for her. He even said one time to me that he would not pay child support for her because she wasn't his. She heard him. And I never asked for him to pay anything for her. But he wants to go around sporting the fact that he raised her and been a daddy to her since she was a baby because her father died before she was even born... It hurts her feelings I'm sure but she doesn't let it show. Just One of the many reasons I "Hate" him.
I've been single for a while. I am so busy, consumed with being a mother of 3 and a surgical assistant full time. There isn't anyone here I can relate to so that makes it difficult to make/keep any friends. All I have are my kids, work friends and family. The support I need I am finding hard to find. I am hoping I will find it here.