just started dating an old flame

Victoria - posted on 04/09/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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i just started dating an old flame, we've been friends for years and we have decided to try again with our relationship. he is constently telling me he is in the relationship long term. how long do i leave it before having him and my son around each other?

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Sally - posted on 04/09/2012

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@ little miss ? Your answer confused me. Where did you get home-wreaker etc. She only said dating again.

I agree with you about the child and waiting until the relationship is more secure.

If iv'e read it wrong sorry.

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Sally - posted on 04/09/2012

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hi, my advice would be to enjoy the relationship but hold of itroducing him to yourson until your secure that this mans around long time, let him prove he wants to stay but in the meantime just enjoy.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 04/09/2012

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He is not worth the time if he cannot be in a relationship with you. Just drop him, and say you are not a homewrecker. As far as the kid is concerned, i would not be bringing any man to meet my children unless I knew that relationship was very seriously heading towards marriage. it is to confusing for kids, and they don't need to deal with adult relationships until it will effect them directly.

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