Denise - posted on 09/02/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
Of course this is a man you once loved but when he chooses to be unsupportive during the pregnancy followed up by non interest in the newborn, only demanding to see the child when he chooses, you have to wonder how this coming and going will affect your child in the long run. Once the relationship ends, you have the clarity you lacked about the person he really is such as he lied so much, he has no stable job history, he is a drug user (and lied about it), pretended to have cancer to keep me sucked in at one point. I do understand we chose this person. However, the child did not and how fair is it to allow this person who is a bad influence near the child? My thinking is to fight to keep him away.