Nancy - posted on 12/28/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
My 19 year old son has not been home since April 2012. When he was in high school he started making wrong choices. He was arrested, kicked out, returned home only to not follow the rules. It gets harder and harder not hearing from him or seeing him. He is in the same town. I can't look at his baby pictures because I think what did we do wrong. He did come over for Christmas, but i think it was because I bought him shoes and a sweatshirt. He only calls when he wants something. He came over the day after Christmas to talk about coming home. He does not have a job, doesn't go to school, basicallly does nothing. We let him know that he needs to volunteer to be productive and it could also lead to a job. He refused and was told he hasn't changed. He stormed off and we havent heard from him. He looks awful. We reach out to him over and over. I feel as though I have lost him forever and worry about his health and well being. I miss my son.