Monica - posted on 05/22/2012 ( 62 moms have responded )
What should I do? My daughter gave my Boyfriend a letter that was so horrendous that he wouldn't read it. I saw it & ripped it up & threw it away. I later took it out & taped it together. I told her to appologize for it but my Boyfriend told her not to worry because he understood how she is really mad at him. He asked her to explain why & she feels that he destroyed her Family. This is so untrue but she has this in her mind & her Father has done nothing to correct the situation. Nothing is getting better & actually is getting worse.
Her Father always sweared & cursed & told him not to around the kids as they are like sponges. He didn't care. Wel,l this Letter was as though he wrote it. Horrendous. The insults were so bad that it was one of those moments that you could never think that your child would ever put you in where you were disgusted with them. I never raised her to be that way. She is a great kids but really hurting. I do a lot for her. Perhaps too much. How should I decipline her? Take her phone away? Ground her? Its kind of hard as she is a Teenager now. Any suggestions?