Kind of a heavy question...

Jody - posted on 01/17/2014 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Should I tell my half sister that her father (my stepfather)was accused twice of molesting little girls? First it was my friend when we were 7 we told our moms and they did nothing about it. Then my 4 year old sister said it. He was given a polygraph and passed. He never touched me per say but it made me fell really uncomfortable saying icky things to me and watching me from his room with a towel over his legs hands underneath the towel. My mom even told me to stop leaving my panties in the bathroom because he was sniffing them...ewwww. My sister recently said she was going to use him to babysit her babygirl. I really think he is capable of this. I want to warn her. This will devastate her because she was a baby when all this went down. He took early retirement so he could help her full time with her baby. I am sick because I know he is creepy but its not proven. I would want to know if I was trusting him with my baby. I fell an obligation to tell her these things so she can make a decision for herself. God forbid he did these things to the little girls because he knew no one would believe them. Her baby is so little and defenseless. I am ready for my whole family to diown me for speaking up if this means my niece is protected.

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Jody - posted on 01/17/2014

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Aww Shawn Thanks! I asked a friend and she made me feel like a horrible person to upset my family because it wasn't proven. I think she's wrong because if this was a family secret I knew nothing about and I left my baby with him I would go crazy!

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/17/2014

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Jody, you are doing exactly right. You wouldn't be able to live with yourself if you didn't say anything, and that baby got hurt!

My FIL was a convicted child rapist. I told him, on the very fist day I met him, that if I ever caught him in ANY inappropriate position with ANY of his grandkids (I didn't have kids at the time, but did have nephews), he wouldn't have to worry about my husband or my brother in law shooting him, because I'd cut his pecker off and nail it to his wall.

You have to do what you can to protect the kids. Good luck! I'll still love you if no one else will!

Jody - posted on 01/17/2014

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Thank you for responding. I have a feeling I will be orphaned after this but I cant sleep at night with the thought he may have full access to this baby.

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