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I am not an "official" mommy but I do feel like I am in a way. I had a miscarriage when I was 8 weeks and 1 day. I understand I wasn't very far along but this has been the most painful thing I have ever gone through. The babies due date was July 21, 2013. I went in for my first ultrasound with my husband && we were so excited. When they couldn't find a heartbeat, its like my world shattered in a million pieces that i will never be able to put back together. I feel like I have no one around me to relate to or talk with about this. All my friends are having or have had babies && I can not even follow them on social networks because its still hard to see everyone happy with their newborns && me knowing I will never be able to hold my baby. I feel like I should do something simple for the due date just for myself. Something I can continue to do to remember my baby. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. Thank you.

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Melody - posted on 07/16/2013

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Yes, have a small special funeral for your new baby. Name him/her and give her a special day. I suggest the books, My Time In Heaven by Richard Sigmund and
another amazing book is Heaven is Real by Todd Burpo. I promise these books will explain how you will see your "baby" again and can raise it in Heaven from an infant.
Soon I will be traveling around the world holding special meetings for women like you.
As a licensed Christian Counselor and speaker, I know that this grief needs to be addressed.
Friend me on Facebook and I will tell you more.
Melody Foster Robbins

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