Casskimmins1989 - posted on 11/17/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )
Hi there, my babies dad and I are not in a relationship anymore. We have been up and down my entire pregnancy (im 24 weeks now) but we going great now. I had planned to have him and my mum in the birthing suite with me. He has just told me that he wants it to only be me and him. I understand where he is coming from, and I think it would be nice aswell, but... my mum has been my main support network since our separation (when I was 3 weeks pregnant) and will continue to be after the baby is born, (he lives 45minutes away) so I dont feel right asking her to step aside for this. My mum was present for my first labour. And she was a great help. I dont want to sound immature, but I would love for this to be just me and him (maybe it will bring us back together) but im scared my mum will be upset. What should I do?