Ladies, So im stuck between the two, my baby's father grabbed the back of my neck after getting into an argument and me wanting to get out of the car... so i decided to stop talking to him, then i also decided to write a guy friend that ive known for 8 years who is in prison, and im stuck like chuck right now, for some odd reason i feel like baby's father is going to cheat on me again well thats what his first babys mother keeps telling me that they are together... and baby;s father is telling me that they are not... prison friend is telling me he wants to get married... what do i do!? im lost

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~♥Little Miss - posted on 12/04/2012

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Also, thinking further about your situation, if you decide not to be with your babies daddy, maybe it would be good for you to take some time to yourself to figure out what would be best for you and your baby.

Ashley - posted on 12/05/2012

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sounds like you need to give up on both and concentrate on you and your baby. babys dad put his hands on you and cheats on you, sounds like you need to get away from him and stay away for good. the other guy is in prison, what can he do for you and your baby when he is locked up? concentrate on you and your baby and quit lookin for a man, the right one will come around when the time is right.

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Dove - posted on 12/05/2012

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Uh.... stay the heck away from both of these guys. Are an abusive man and a guy in prison really your only choices? Yikes....

~♥Little Miss - posted on 12/04/2012

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Um.....if you are going to leave the man you are currently with, why would you want to marry someone that is in jail? As far as I am concerned, you are cheating on your current man....at least emotionally. If you don't trust the guy you are with, leave him. Especially someone that is physically abusive. I don't see either as a win.

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