Length of time to leave children with stepfather

Estella - posted on 03/23/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )

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I have been dating this guy for ten months. Is he trustworthy?

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Ev - posted on 03/23/2015

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I have to agree with the other ladies.

1) He is not legally married to you therefore, he is not their step dad.
2) You have not known him a year yet. Why have you introduced your kids so soon to him. You do not even know if this will last very long.
3) Their safety is more important than leaving them with a person they hardly kno.
4) Start thinking a bit more before you do things.

~♥Little Miss - posted on 03/23/2015

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I would say not. But we don't know him, or your kid. He is NOT a stepfather until you marry. And if you have ANY concerns about leaving your child with this man, then absolutely re-evaluate your relationship with him.

Michelle - posted on 03/23/2015

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Like Shawnn said, if you are asking this here then I'd say not. We don't know him so how can we say he's trustworthy?

Veronica - posted on 03/23/2015

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I agree with Shawnn. I would not be leaving him with my children only after 10 months.I'm not trying to insinuate that he's a bad guy,but you never know these days.I would suggest you really take the time to get to know him more to see if he's worth being in you and your kids life.Remember their safety comes before anything.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 03/23/2015

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If you have to ask strangers online, I'd say probably not.

Also, if you're just dating the man, stop calling him the kids stepfather. He's not. He's your boyfriend, and in my opinion, in only 10 months, he shouldn't even have MET the kids, much less be allowed to babysit

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