K - posted on 06/02/2013 ( 1 mom has responded )
Ok so I am 22 years old. My Fiance is 29 and we have been together almost two years. I have a 4 yr old from another guy so there's a constant custody battle there, since she was 7 months. I also have a 5 month old son with my Fiance. We both work full time, attend classes and I run a cake business on the side. Starting since I was about 4 months preggo I have absolutely no desire for sex. He is a sexaholic, makes advances about every 30 min to an hour. I was abused when I was little so being affectionate has always been hard and now It's impossible. We have talked about everything, he knows exactly how I feel yet he still makes advances constantly. We have sex a few times a week but I rarely enjoy it, he will wake me up in the night and I usually haveto push him off but sometimes I just give in and let him do it. I love him and everything else about our relationship is amazing but I can't stand this anymore. I am too young to have this problem and it is extremely depressing. I don't know what to do or how to fix it. I have had sex with multiple other partners in the past so I am past that stage, I am ready to settle down.