Living overseas, husband is deployed, raising twin toddlers and no friends...

Nina - posted on 07/27/2013 ( no moms have responded yet )

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Living overseas, husband is deployed, raising twin toddlers and no friends...is pretty much what my life consists of right now and I am very very depressed and truly hate feeling this way! I try and stay strong for my husband and my children but it is really hard to even smile lately.

My husband and I are not very social with others and enjoy just being with one another on the weekends and being with our children but now he is deployed and I have no one. I used to have a few "friends" but they were either rude and insensitive or were just not my type. I used to be outgoing and full of life but this is the lowest I have been and I do not know which way to go. I have family, they are nothing but drama and gossip (not something I am into) so I am not to excited to visit the states right now because I feel I will come back worse then I am now...

I hate that I am writing this but guess this is a good way to vent...

I am a kind, helpful and genuine person and I think the thing that bothers me most is we come overseas and we live around other officer families, I seem to not fit the the high ranking officer look because I have tattoos galore and don't dress in mom jeans and sweaters all day...maybe I scare the wives around me but why is it people have to judge a book by its cover. I am a good person and would be a great friend but these people have birthday parties and get togethers and it seems we are the only family never invited...

Enough with my sob story...I would just like your input on what I can do or change!

I do go to play dates and the park the involve myself with other wives and allow my children to play with their children but from then on, I hear nothing from them...

I am very confused and down right now!

Thank you in advance for your input! : )

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