Lonely at home all day!

Ia515 - posted on 08/22/2016 ( 8 moms have responded )

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Ok, so I'm home alone all day kids at school and hubby is at work. I take the kids to school and then come home to an empty house. So I typically, log into my KIK account and chat with men and women. Sometimes the conversations are good sometimes not. A few times though they have turned sexual. I know its wrong, but really turns me on sometimes. Nothing more then just some sexual chat, no pictures.

Am I the only one? Does this make me a bad person?

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Leslie - posted on 08/23/2016

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It doesn't make you a bad person but it can certainly lead to trouble....PLEASE stop -- even if you don't stop all the conversations LEAVE when it turns sexual....while it seems like being turned on my this can spice up your marriage, in reality it is going to ruin it. I too would encourage you to find something else to do - volunteer, a job, a work at home job, a hobby....but definitely STOP the sexual conversations - unless it is with your DH!

Michelle - posted on 08/22/2016

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I'm also in the house bored all the time. And i get really depressed!!! My fiancé tells me I need to find a friend to talk to. Right now my son that is 8 years old don't start school until September 8th. And i have an 19 month old girl. I love my kids to death but I really need a friend I can talk to someone I can just vent and have fun with!! I really miss that!! So I just stay in the house all day while my fiance is at work. I think it's ok to chat with other men as long as you don't take it too far!! Just think how you would feel if your husband was doing the same thing? Do you have friends that you could go do stuff with so you could get out of the house?

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Ia515 - posted on 08/22/2016

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How about you any place to take kids to play with other kids while you get adult time

Ia515 - posted on 08/22/2016

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Thanks Michelle for your comments. Most the wive in my neighborhood work during the day. I go on walks and try to see if anyone is out. Go to gym too, but rarely anyone there. Going to find some where to volunteer and get some social. I feel bad about chatting with guys, but my husband works long hours and basicly sleeps at home during the week. Our sex life is nil.

Ia515 - posted on 08/22/2016

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I just love the complements and conversation. Makes me feel so good at the time. Did share a few normal pics, but nearly share a revieling pic. I don't know why, was just sucked into to chat. I would never meet up. I will try to fill my time better, but its like a drug.

Sarah - posted on 08/22/2016

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It can be tough once the kids head back. My kids are back in school and my school where I work starts Wed. My office is ready so I find myself here on CoM all day! It is so easy to get sucked in.....

Ia515 - posted on 08/22/2016

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Thanks, Sarah. I have been thinking about helping out at the school. Just need some interaction with people. I just don't get to be around people much any more.

Sarah - posted on 08/22/2016

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Not a bad person, but you need to find something to keep you busy. Get a job or volunteer to fill your time.

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