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Corinne - posted on 09/25/2015 ( 9 moms have responded )

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Hi Sascha, thank you for the welcome. I was having some difficulty. Help! ?

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Sarah - posted on 09/25/2015

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Are you in a financial position or can you get help from the older kids to help you with the 8 yo. If you can get out and spend some time with a friend, volunteer or work part-time (10 hours a week)? You may feel better both emotionally and physically. have you seen a specialist about your kidney stones? A change in diet can work wonders. You'd need to do a 24 hours urine collection to determine the elements of your stones. Once my hubby gave up pop and started drinking water with lemon the frequency dropped dramatically. The flank pain is likely a stone, but it sounds like you need a good nephrologist or urologist and a psychiatrist too. Do you go to therapy or take anti-anxiety medication? Sounds like even company my help, do you have friends in the area?

Corinne - posted on 09/25/2015

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Oh girl. Severe anxiety, reoccurring kidney infections, unexplained right flank pain, stress, can't sleep. My kids are 17 and 12. His are 19, 14 and 8. It's been this way since I met him. I wanted to fix everything I guess. Always told myself I'd never ever get with a man with children (first I've ever dated that has children), and to top it off this has never been a normal situation. So much to say but, tooo much to type.

Sarah - posted on 09/25/2015

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Do you have family support? How old are the kids? Do you mind sharing your health problems? You can vent away here anytime. I let loose yesterday and it felt good!

Dove - posted on 09/25/2015

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♥ I'm sorry! Are you in counseling? It might help (obviously not w/ being physically sick, but w/ the stress and emotion of it all).

Corinne - posted on 09/25/2015

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Thanks so much for your response. This is all new for me. I'm so lonley and unhappy. Ive got three step children (which is a challenge in itself (, they all have anger management issues, court issues etc. ..I've got two children of my own and I have been ill since I met my husband of three years now. Together for five. He's been working out of town, home for 6 days outta the month, for the past two years. I don't work but I'm soooo miserable. Not sure why I blame myself fir everything. As though I have to fix everything and everyone. I'm sick (literally) and tired. (Forgive my complaints)

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