Looking for a Surrogate

Valerie - posted on 12/21/2015 ( 2 moms have responded )




My Love and I are looking for a surrogate. I am not able to have anymore children and doesn't have any at all. The IVF and paying for surrogate makes it in-affordable for us. We both have jobs, but we are far from wealthy. We do not qualify for grants, because I do have children. I really want to make his dream of having a child come true. I listen to him at night and hear him cry and talk about how bad he wants a child of his own. Breaks my heart knowing I cannot so readily give this to him. If there is anyone out there that is willing to help please let me know.


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Sarah - posted on 12/21/2015




Raye is correct, this is not the appropriate forum to seek a surrogate. If you can't afford a traditional surrogate (roughly 80K in the US start to finish), you need to find a compassionate surrogate instead. Someone who will go thru IVF, carry the child and then permit you to to parent. Do you need a donor egg as well? Find an agency and lay out your need to them; that is where you will get the best, most accurate advice. Not here.

Raye - posted on 12/21/2015




You should go through reputable sources, not just asking random people on the internet.

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