Looking to Terminate My Childs Fathers Rights Along With The Child Support, He Barely Pays...Need Advise

Cher - posted on 05/27/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )




I have a 9 yr old daughter, who my heart aches for, I chose the worst specimen of a man to procreate with, If I knew he'd never be there for her emotionally, mentally, and just barely financially, I would never have laid down with him, the only thing good that came out of a abusive relationship was her and she is the only reason I have not given up on life. Im Kinda Shedding Tears because Im so beyond tired of trying to be proactive and encorurage him to do right by his daughter in spite of me, He is never there for her like she need so much right now, Its not about the financial, She and I Been going without it for this long and its sporatic never been consistent so I don't literally ever depend on it, if I did I would be screwed and out doors, anyway I want to know how I can go about having him sit down and relinquish his rights full so that when and if in the rare chance I were to settle down and a kind, loving, caring man came along wanted to step up and be a father to her, he could and I wouldn't run into he has rights, blah , blah , blah, Im willing to cease the child support order, in exchange for him to give up his right and disappear like he has and stop having a right to drop in and out her life. Its not fair to her because of my poor choice in men, and I want to do the right thing to protect her well being, her heart, and to put an end to this inconsistency, and leave the door open for someone to step up some day when I meet him, I just want to have all this done prior to that so my daughter, and myself wont have problems....I don't know what to do, All I am trying to do is protect my baby, end a broken family and pray to god he will mend it and bring her a real dad and I wont have to keep explaining why dad is not there and doesn't do anything...- I know this is a lot to take in but this is coming from a mothers heart that is hurt and a child who she wants to help in the long run...I don't hate her dad, I just know he will never do right and well frankly this child deserves better...


Jodi - posted on 05/27/2014




Well, having some contact with her dad, even if it is minimal, is better than none at all. How often does he see her?

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