Looks Like Im leaving due to the BD's GF on CoMs

Britt - posted on 07/15/2011 ( 16 moms have responded )

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So sad but I am going to say my goodbyes. I really looked forward to share stories and get real answers about our daily struggles. So sad people have to snoop.

This woman is harassing me in "real," life and Im SICK of it. I have never and will never talk "bad," about this woman- I wish there was a way I can stay. Will miss you all! Thanks for helping me

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Charlie - posted on 07/15/2011

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You can go to her page and block her , she wont be able to see your posts and you wont be able to see hers :)

Jane - posted on 07/15/2011

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I suppose you could always come back under a pseudonym that she won't recognize. Others do, so why not you? You could still get the benefit of the site without her interfering.

Jodi - posted on 07/16/2011

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Here you go, here is the message I receive when I try to block someone:

"Are you sure you want to block this member?

She will no longer be able to view your profile or Child Spaces; send you messages, compliments, or welcomes; or invite you into her circle or communities. You will also not be notified if she tries to contact you."



Nothing about not being able to read posts.

Erica - posted on 07/15/2011

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You mustn go!! You have helped me out remarkably. We can exchange emails if you like, but I dont likethe thought of you going.
@Jane ..wouldnt the other person recognize the "same story," and can still snoop?

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Destiny - posted on 07/18/2011

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I haven't talked to Ypu on here but I totally agree with the others!!! YOU MUST STAY! Don't let her get the set of you! If anything by u staying just shows her ur the bigger person and unlike her immature ass you can have a normal life and she doesn't phase you at all!!! I have been thru the same thing numerous times and I ended up deleting stuff because of it! But later on I thought about it ans was like " HOLD UP" heck no am i gonna delete or stop doing sumthing I enjoy because of some crazy, immature ex BD GF or anyone else 4 that fact! So please stay and show her who runs S**T lol!!!

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Just stay and ignore her. Never post anything that could incriminate you and if her harrassment escalates.... report her.

User - posted on 07/18/2011

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NEVER LET SOMEONE GET THE BEST OF YOU. GAME OVER AGREE TO DISAGREE. I'VE STOP WRITING AND CORRESPONDING TO MY BROTHER FOR JUST ABOUT AN YEAR NOW AND IT FEELS GOOD TO BREATH. DON'T STOP BELIEVING IN YOUR SELF YOU ARE ALREADY AN WINNER AND LEAVE HER IN THE DUST. TIME TO IGNORE THOSE PESTY CRITERS

Erica - posted on 07/16/2011

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Please stay you didnt do nothing wrong. I know this because i follow your advice and threads in non custodial mommies.
tell the SM of your situation or whatever the GF that YOU arent afraid and keep doing what your doing i dont see you are bashing anybody just telling us your daily struggles and seeking advice.:)

Jodi - posted on 07/16/2011

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Feen, I don't think the block function works on posts. It only works for private messages - if you block someone, they can't message you. Unless they have changed it......

Jane - posted on 07/16/2011

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Maybe she would recognize the story, or maybe she couldn't tell if it were actually you. You can also consider a private group and invite the folks you like best on here.

Britt - posted on 07/16/2011

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I will add you as a friend, I really dont know what im going to do now.
I did block her, I heard that only blocks out her messaging me ! Now this sucks!

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