loss of a baby

Natalie - posted on 08/06/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I just recently lost my 5 month and 3 day old baby boy, and it was an unexpected death and I cant stop picturing what I found, I dont no how to grieve, what to do with my self, at I feel nothing, I feel like am not grieving properly, I have a two year old lil girl who's helped me through the first part but now I feel and think of nothing, I for sone strange reason still think he's alive I no diffrent but trying to tell my head dif things to my heart is hard and I dont no how to cope any more or what to do or if im grieving or not !!??!!

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Michelle - posted on 08/06/2013

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Ohh.. I'm sorry, i misread your original post, I thought you lost your baby while 5mths pregnant. That is soooooooo heartbreaking, thats even more devastating. I'm soo sorry.

One of the forums I used was babycenter.com in the baby loss forum.
Also - babyloss.com. There are many to go to, other people going through it will bring comfort & support. Again, so sorry for your loss.

Natalie - posted on 08/06/2013

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They believe it may of bin cot death (sids) because he was healthy and fine, im just lost now and I really don't no what to do or how to grieve properly or if im Evan grieving, sorry to hear about your loss I am sorry for your loss, what was the best website that helped you through it? And thank you for replying to me

Michelle - posted on 08/06/2013

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So sorry to hear this. I have lost 2 babies and I had a 2yr old boy first that was a healthy pregnancy. the first loss was at 17 wks pregnant - my water broke too early, baby boy. Very traumatizing & devastating. then a miscarriage @ 8wks . Its very very hard, not gonna lie, but dont give up try again. I used babyloss forums online to get thru it, my friends had no idea how to help me & my husband wasnt affected by it like I was.

I went on to have 2 more babies that were healthy.

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