Rhee - posted on 05/26/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )
I really want to step away from my son & his manic, narrcassistic girlfriend but those children they have should know their grandmother. When he met this young lady 7yrs ago she treated him like a slave. He waited on her constant. I bumped my daughters elbow and shrugged my shoulders like what is going on here. Dishes never done, messy surroundings, garbage piled. But this girl wouldn't get off her but to do anything. When she cleaned she threw things away. Each time I saw her she was pushier. I told my husband I feel sufforcates when she comes around with my son. After meeting her he never came and saw me by himself. I thought that was odd. She pushed her family on me. Again that suffocating feeling like I just didn't belong. They are drinkers, partiers. I don't drink. I don't party. I like an occasional barbeque or company over. This girlfriend expressed how she hated her parents. She expressed how happy she was to have found my son. He has told so much about me that she already knows she will love me as a mom. ??? Most conversations with her went no where. I never could or have seen or talked with my son one on one since he meet her. My daughter says she writes and says terrible things about me and my husband over facebook. Now they have children. I whispered to my son, please don't marry someone who hates your mother. She expressed that she hates the children. She just had them for him. My husband just can't believe how she is. Like a princess that is truly only for herself. Her family supports her, but lately they have shown they are tired of her living off them. I told her do what everyone of us does and work but she always has an excuse. She even manuvere it so that not once have I ever talked to her parents alone. Now she has accused my husband of stupid shot when he isn't even involved. So now my husband and I have cut ties. I worry about my son and the kids. He is legally the signed parental guardian for the children. She keeps him with her by threatening to sign the kids to her. I hope she just walks away someday or he man's up and takes the kids and leaves. It has been a grueling task watching his life sufforcates with this beastly girl. The children just adore me as much as I adore them. Now....... Will they remember me. The oldest child and I have absolute fun and happiness when her and I spent time together. I hope my son leaves that family. Brainwashing is real. I see he has been brainwashed. I go on everyday but there is still that piece that feels broken.