Chrissy - posted on 10/17/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
Help. I don't know what to do. I am a single mother of five. Four are from a abusive relationship with my ex husband and the fifth is my newest addition Haylee at 3 months. My boyfriend is the father of her. We have been dating since June 2013. He was trying to get to know my other kids until lately. My oldest daughter told him off for trying to Disiplining them on my birthday when he found out I was super upset they didn't do their chores and made the house a mess. She said "I will respect you when you start respecting mom and Haylee by living with them."He doesn't live with Haylee and I cuz he said he likes his apartment and can't live with my kids. So I am raising Haylee as well on my own. He helps when I go there. He won't even come for visits while the other kids are here anymore. He expects me to go there. I had my oldest apologize an he says they need to be more responsible but when they offer to help him with raking his old houses yard and with his salvaging he does on the side he refuses to let them. I don't know what to do. How can I get them back to a place where he will come here again. I don't think he's actin fairly to me. I don't think he's treating my kids fairly either. He wants a relationship with me and Haylee and said he was starting to think of living together but now he can't and wonders how were gonna have a future. Help need advice on how to deal with this. Don't want to leave him and have yet another failed relationship.?