love child

Janie - posted on 11/03/2014 ( 7 moms have responded )

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What is the best way to discern if your spouse has a 'love child'?

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Janie - posted on 11/04/2014

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I appreciate your response & No, there is nothing on my behslf that has been of wrongdoing but I sense awkwardness immensily & not sure how to discover the bottom line truth. Too many things just dont add up. Im seeking full disclosure to only amend, heal & appropriately accept.

Raye - posted on 11/04/2014

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I agree with Jodi. If you are mistrusting your spouse, then there are issues there that need to be resolved. What are the signs that you're reading that point to a love child? Think about what behaviors they are exhibiting that make you suspicious and ask them why they are acting that way. If you accuse them outright of having a love child and of lying to you and they are innocent, then you've got one big mess on your hands. Is there anything that YOU are feeling guilty about, that you have started looking for guilt in your spouse to make yourself feel better? We don't know what you're sensing, so I'm not sure we can give you much more advice other than to talk to each other. Go to counseling if you need an objective third party's opinion.

Jodi - posted on 11/03/2014

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If he is lying to you or you are mistrusting him, whether there is a love child or not, there are clearly marital issues. I would actually advise that the two of you get some counselling to resolve them one way or the other. And if he does have a child, then it will likely come out through that process.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 11/03/2014

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Seriously. Has your spouse revealed that he has had other children? What 'sense' are you getting that you're being lied to?

Janie - posted on 11/03/2014

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I have asked, but feel the answer & sensing is a different level of discovery. How does one Truley put senses & facts together, openly!!

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