low sex drive after hysterectomy

Stephanie - posted on 03/01/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )




I'm 25 I have 2 babies that are 16 months apart both girls one is 2 the other will be 1 on the 23rd of March. 10 months after I had my youngest daughter I found out I had to have a partial hysterectomy and kept both my ovaries , many mixed emotions set in for me but I knew it was best for my body and my health. 2 moths later after my surgery my sex drive has severely decreased it's the last thing I want my poor husband I feel bad for him but I don't even want to be touched most the time. Well here's my problem now my husband has begun to be very pushy about sex always wanting it always just pushing it I've tried talk to him and if I tell him no he get mad at just throws a fit. And he been buying me sexy outfit he want me to wear pushing it try to make me wear them and even brought home a sex pill trying to get me to take it. I dont know what to do any more I'm at a loss. Any other moms feel that way


Raye - posted on 03/02/2016




You're only 25. You're way too young to give up on sex, and any man in your husband's situation would be frustrated. He shouldn't force you to do it, but you should want to sometimes. Talk to your doctor about hormone levels and see if you need to take a supplement. Maybe counseling would also help to see if you can mentally get yourself in the mood more often.

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