lpst my child to adoption

Kimberley - posted on 03/22/2016 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I lost custody. Battle to my child in 2013 he was adopted on June 2014 I just fell so lost I can't forces I still fell in shook i can't function properly that my child can't come back home to me anymore I suffer from loss of sleep I cry all the time I still find silly little things around the house what remains me of him like he's dummy or he's teddy's or a peace of clothing what belongs to him . He's 2 years old now

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Sarah - posted on 03/22/2016

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Whatever the circumstance, it is painful for you to lose custody of your child. Since he has been adopted, my advice is to look forward. It has been three years since he was removed and almost two since you new he was not coming back. Get yourself into some therapy and move forward. There can be some peace in knowing he is well, in the care of loving parents. Pack up his belongings there is no purpose in having them around to remind you of your sadness. Best of luck.

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Kimberley - posted on 03/22/2016

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Thank you so much Stacy I will do that
And yes I do have contact with him he's gone up into an open adoption and have meet the parents as well I have letterbox's contact with him once a year but it's just really hard to move on and get on with my life I just miss him Soo much.

Stacie - posted on 03/22/2016

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I'm sorry to hear of your loss. I don't know what the circumstances are that lead to this, but whatever they are, I am sure it is an unspeakable source of pain. Do you have any access to him, or was he adopted to a family you are not in contact with? If it is a family you have contact with, you could always reach out to see if they would be open to some contact with him. They may say no, which is within their right, or they may agree to some specific terms. I'm sure they love your son very much and would weigh out the risks and benefits carefully. If he is adopted out to a family you have no contact with, than it sounds like it is time to start the healing process and growth that is needed to be a happy, productive person. Whether you are able to have contact with him or not, you need to start that healing process. I hope this helps ♥

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