Emma - posted on 06/11/2014 ( 12 moms have responded )
My son was a lovely boy growing up, very caring and loving, always wanting to include his older sister but she constantly rejected him, he was loud in his approach (had glue ear) so most probably spoke louder than others, heavy handed (dyspraxia, late diagnosis) I have ADHD and I see his behaviour is also very hyperactive. He acts like he is invinsible and is driven by money, will tread on anyone to get it and drugs. The tv programmes he choses to watch are all mafia related. He constatnly takes drugs, says it's marujana but I know its heavier than that. I'm sure he is on cocaine, he did Miao Miao (excuse my ignorance in spelling) and is totally unpredicatable. I have thrown him out a few times and his father has taken him in and this is constantly happening, I throw, dad takes in and visa versa. He is 23 years old this year and I can't see an end to it. He is in and out of work, manipulative in his way of speaking and can be charming when he wants something. I know deep inside that the only way to help him is to take a leap of faith and give him a final ultimatum, give up the habit, or get out. Because he is currently working, I fear him losing his job and he doesn't have money for his own place due to his habit and in and out of work situation. He is making 4 lives miserable (mine, his dad's, his sisters and his own). He has only been back in my home for 3 nights and is already breaking all the rules and I'm not sleeping through stress. I'm concerned I will lost my high pressured job too and its so hard although I know that I should kick him out. HELP!!!