Raeann - posted on 02/15/2014 ( 1 mom has responded )
I understand how marital rape can affect you. I am a young woman (under 30) and i have been married for almost 5 years.And along with him being unfaithful to me, i had to endure marital rape. I remember i didnt even know what to call what my husband did to me. I simply cried myself to sleep. It drove me insane until i decided to see counseling and the counselor told me about marital rape. Being a rape victim before marriage it has shaken me up badly. What hit the worse was knowing he also had an affair while putting me through that. I am now getting a divorce, something i thought i would never have to do, but i cant live with the abuse. Even after i stop being angry and hurting about it. i had to ask myself can i live with him defiling me constantly. My answer is No i can not. I wish him all the best though and i pray for him. What is your thought on the divorce?