Hadija - posted on 11/25/2013
Thank you for your post. Now I m with my parents safely and I have again an emotionally abusive mother whom I couldn't tolerate . My sister is well settled and she is great. My mother always compare with her . So I reconcile with him . Otherwise I wouldnt have gone back to him
Jodi - posted on 11/23/2013
You can't "make" anyone understand anything they don't want to understand. If he has been mentally abusive, the chances are he won't change, especially if he doesn't understand it. I wouldn't be wanting to have him back unless he has undergone some serious counselling for this issue and you have gone through counselling as a couple, because otherwise, he will be mentally abusing you for the next 10 years.
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