Marriage Advice- When has it reached the point where divorce is what's best for your child?

Moriah - posted on 05/03/2014 ( no moms have responded yet )

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I am 20 years old, my husband is 23, we have a almost 6 month old daughter and have been together for two years and I am a stay at home mom. After our daughter was born things started getting bad and I figured it was because of the stress of the new baby but it keeps getting worse and worse. I'm at the point where I don't know what to do and I have no one to talk to for help. All we do is fight, he yells all the time, gets so angry sometimes that he punches walls and screams and swears at me, never spends any time with me or includes me in any decisions, and today I caught him smoking pot in our bedroom with our daughter in the house. He has been hiding it from me for months and I had no idea. I don't know what to do or how to fix it. I love him but I need to do what is best for me and my daughter. I just don't know if it's better to try and fix this or leave and make her grow up with a single mother. I spent half my life with parents who did nothing but fought and the the other half of them being divorced and both is horrible. I never wanted her to have to go through this but I don't know what to do. Any advice or suggestions would really help me right now. Either on how we can work through it or what I should do to help or anything. I just can't live like this and I can't let my daughter live a life like this and see me falling apart like I have been.

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