Bre - posted on 06/01/2016 ( 2 moms have responded )
Husband and I got married before our 1st child was born. We were engaged before I found out I was pregnant. So, we pushed the marriage forward.
Ever since we had our child, my husband has become unbearable. He moved our daughter and me to his new job right after I had her, there was no grace period for me to recooperate after having her, we had to move right then.
Now, he throws a fit every time he doesn't get his way. He has put us in mounds of debt, and says hurtful things, and how all of our problems are my fault. I love him, but I am not so sure I can stick around much longer. I finally went back to work after 8 months, only because he got us in more debt and refuses to work extra hours, yet he complains about us not having any money.
He gets everything he wants, yet I sacrifice so much so that our daughter and him can have what they want. I wear the same pants to work every day because of this. I thought about leaving, but he has screwed up our finances so much that I wouldn't make it alone with my daughter.
I am just not sure what to do anymore.
We tried counseling, and that was a bust, and we can't afford it anymore.
I am just confused as to where my sweet husband went after we moved and had our daughter. He is now mean and blames everything on me.