Katie - posted on 01/13/2014 ( 5 moms have responded )
My husband ignores me and the kids all the time, for ridiculous things like the video games, kindle, laptop, tv. Then complains I don't want him to go out with friends and he doesn't get to have fun. First off he does go out WAY more then me. Second he plays his games ect. EVERYDAY. I say well I think its bull you ignore us when your home then want to leave and yet again pay no attention to us. He says well im almost always home, that should be enough, I say you might as well be my roommate, I work like he does and then do EVERYTHING else for the bills, cleaning, errands, kids, groceries, laundry ect. I said i'd be more okay with you going with friends if at home you showed us more attention. I don't believe a loving marriage includes me needing to MAKE my husband spend time with me and the kids and its to the point I feel he does nothing for us but work. Which I make just as much as him (which he belittles, saying his is hard labor and mines easy) but he has so many bills that are things just for him like for instance his motorcycle payment which I didn't want but hey to hell with me! He did it anyways. He has no idea what a marriage is about. Im so damn lonely as it is, its like hmm, leave and be MORE lonely or stay and be lonely. I feel absolutely trapped. These btw are not all the issues but one im struggling with right now a lot.