Married to a cop
Velda - posted on 01/19/2014
Thanks Jodi. Yes we are all equals. Just because i quit working to take care of our kids doesn't give him the right to treat me differently. His job is more important than his family and expects me to keep the house in perfect order! He sits on his ass all the time while I'm on my feet all day. There were a few small things I didn't tell him but it was in good reason. He's bitching all the time when he's home so what's the point of us staying together, it affects the kids as well.
Jodi - posted on 01/18/2014
This has nothing to do with him being a cop. This has to do with him being a controlling husband, and that isn't acceptable. You are not his child, you are his wife and EQUAL....which means he doesn't GET to control you. When someone is controlling of their partner, it is a form of abuse. If he can't trust you, and you have done nothing to earn that lack of trust, then this is HIS issue, not yours. You shouldn't have to deal with it. He should seek help for his trust issues. As long as you continue to "deal" with it, he will continue to think his behaviour is ok.
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