Athena - posted on 07/28/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
I've been married for almost seven years, and we have two beautiful kids that are two and half years old, (twins). I work as a teacher, he recently started up his own company.
He's home more, but at night regardless if he was working or was home, he tells me has to go out, (this is around 11:30 pm-12:30pm, after getting text messages from friends) ,and will be back soon. He goes out to smoke, because he doesn't want to smoke around the kids which I put to bed every night, however I think it's that he's out with many immature and single friends, having a good time, and smoking weed, not cigarettes.
This really upsets me. He denies this is what's happening.
I feel like I'm being used to stay home and take care of the kids, especially now in the summer. On top of all that I have terrible pain with my back. I had been feeling better for over a month, now that I;m home with the kids it hurts, and he gets angry when I tell him sorry I don;t want to go the park, or the beach and hold our son the whole entire time.
I know he's not cheating, but I'm not quite sure how to stay calm, and not want to beat him up when he comes home late constantly, and reeks from that stuff.