Marrying a soon to be NYPD officer. #newlywed #nypd husband

Crysta - posted on 03/19/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My fiancé and I are getting married in two weeks. He's getting his gun and shield tomorrow and will find out where he is placed. How hard is it and how should I keep happy while starting a new marriage, living basically on my own and trying not to worry for his safety. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!

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Allyson - posted on 04/24/2014

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Don't watch the news! Seriously! I have been an NYPD wife for 7 1/2 years, but and NYPD lady for almost 11. It isn't easy. When they have an arrest and don't come home and don't call, you go crazy. One time I said to me husband, just send me a quick text so I know you are alive. He said, "you don't need to worry if you don't hear from me, you need to worry if you hear from someone else who wouldn't normally call you". Where do you and your husband live? I only just found this group but would love to get it active... Or get something going on FB or something.

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Allyson - posted on 04/25/2014

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HI Crysta, I actually found a facebook page! Decided to search again before starting my own. I requested to join it last night, I'll see if they respond promptly to that, if not... it means the group isn't very active. If they do... give me your email and I will send you a link to it. We are in Queens. Trust me... it gets easier.

Crysta - posted on 04/24/2014

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Hey! Thanks so much for getting back to me!!! Wasn't sure if anyone even went on here LoL I was bored one night while getting anxiety about him starting. Needless to say, we've been married three weeks now and I think I've seen him a total of 5 days or so... This sucks! Yes I NEVER watch the news! Two nights ago he had his first arrest and it was around the time he gets off I nearly had a heart attack when he didn't answer. Just a text. A single letter just so I know he's ok lol!! Anyway, I live in Massapequa. Yourself? Let's start a Facebook group! I'll get it together- I have enough time on my hands! Lmao... Give me your email so when I get it together I can get in touch with you. Thanks so much for writing back.

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