Me and my ex went our way

April - posted on 01/24/2014 ( 3 moms have responded )

4

0

0

He cheated on me with a woman at his job. I found out 2wks ago. I kicked him out my house. Took away my truck away from him. And u turn off his phone line. I had a horrible time dealing with the break up cause I love him. And we have 1 son together but he met me with my other 2. He help my raise my kids. Me and him been together for about 4yrs going on 5. And I know I didn't give him attention cause I was mostly focus on my kids. And he found that attention at work with that woman. She's a married woman and 3kids. She's 31 I'm 25. And my ex 26. I know they had sexual contact. She told me. So that's y I left my ex. He didnt want to talk to me at first. His was rude w me. And suddenly he talk to me. He offer to pay my bills and offer to take care of me. And sometimes I wonder why is he being so nice to me. I wonder why. Most guys would be jerks and would hope their baby momma would fall and fail.

3 Comments

View replies by

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/24/2014

13,216

21

2014

Well, not accepting his offered help could count against you as well...

Get your court date set. Get custody set, get visitation and support set.

Maybe he's being nice because he truly feels remorseful.

April - posted on 01/24/2014

4

0

0

I filed child support behind his back. During that time he was being a jerk. I guess when I post something on fb. His mom had a talk with him. He hasn't seen my kids over 2wks? He doesn't want to come to my house haha.nor would I want to go to his house. I even asked an officer. If my ex has my kids can I get them.back. He said no.cause there is no court agreement. So im waiting for the court date. And im just wondering why he is nice. Is he gonna use that in court? Is he gonna throw it in my face? Why is he helping me? Most guys would be asses. but he admits he did wrong. He offers to give me 600 a wk. My ex makes 3000 a wk. And I know court will take away more from him. So I don't except his money orders.

♫ Shawnn ♪♫♫ - posted on 01/24/2014

13,216

21

2014

Ok, so he wants to support his kids, you let him.

Get it set in court orders so that both of you have guidelines to comply with.

Join Circle of Moms

Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.

Join Circle of Moms