Daina - posted on 06/21/2016 ( 1 mom has responded )
My boyfriend and I have been together 1.5 years and live together. He has two small children - 2 and 10 months (he left her while pregnant - relationship was not working and neither of the two were planned - stupidity on their part for no BC). He is one involved father and loves his girls. He watches them twice a week in the evening until they go to bed and has them every weekend - either Fri-Sun or Sun-Mon. I am around them of course and have met the ex and have been around her a few times.
We get along when we are all three together with the girls and she has texted me a few times to thank me for helping with the girls or for taking care of them and loving them.
My boyfriend and her talk daily - and share pictures of the girls (the girls are the only ones in the pictures). I have seen some of the conversations and it's always about the girls.
My question is - how do you not get involved with your boyfriend's relationship with his ex and baby mama? I sometimes find it hard to not want to know what they are saying and texting (even though I know it's about the girls or if they are having an argument or about what happened during a pick up/drop off). It could very well me just having some moments of insecurity and a matter of putting that aside.