MIL and auntie issues

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 05/23/2011 ( 9 moms have responded )

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I like my boyfriends mom, and she absolutely adores our son. The problem is my boyfriends sister. She doesn't care about anyone but her self and her dog when she was over one time jumped on my 4 month old sons head and ran over him causing him to cry and all she said was simply 'He's okay'. It's just her character - she leaves her dog outside and forgets it's out there so it got heat stroke and she didn't care she simply said 'She's a bit slow today, haha' and she actually thinks it's funny to hit her dog on a certain spot on the head because it causes the dog to sneeze and apparently that's funny to her? The list goes on, she's just over all not a good person. MIL watches our son 1 day a week and now his sister is moving back in..... I don't trust her for good reasons and I feel like not taking my son over there anymore if she is going to be around. Her and us don't hang out because of how she is, but she will stop by her moms house to spend time with our son and her mother when he is there that 1 day a week. To me it's creepy but whatever? So now she's going to be living there............. I don't know what to think except for the worst. Oh someone, comment please :) lol

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JuLeah - posted on 05/24/2011

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Don't leave your son anywhere near her or anywhere near a person who won't protect him

Shannintipton - posted on 05/24/2011

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Hi Nichole,
Does the SIL work or go to school or anything. I was thinking if she did, take your son on those days. Otherwise, I am at a complete loss. Personally I would like to rip her arm off and beat her with it. But that is just me. Oh and hit her hard with it. Good luck. That is a tough one. {:+)

Jolayne - posted on 05/23/2011

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May I suggest that perhaps you should look into other childcare rather than worrying yourself sick whenever you drop him off there.
Good luck I really hope you things work out for you :)

Amber - posted on 05/23/2011

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I think you really need to discuss this with your MIL. It's obviously a safety concern for your son to be there if she's letting her dog trample over the top of him.
And I wonder what "special" spot on your son she'll find to make him do odd things?....Ok, that's not really a fair statement because most people treat dogs and people differently, but it would still concern me.

I wouldn't be taking my kid over there unless my MIL could give me some hard facts on why it would be okay. Even if she could, I'd probably still be iffy on it.

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√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 05/24/2011

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Lol she works about the same hours her mom does, so it's hard. She's pretty much home when she is. They both work at a school district...... lovely

√v^√v^√♥ - posted on 05/24/2011

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Lol it's not a matter of childcare but ty so much. She simply wants to see him :)

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Thanks. I just feel as if with her living there she'll be more of a pre-madonna and I don't want to deal with it. Like I said, we already do not see her. She visits her mom and our son? So with her living there, it's kind of forced now and I'm not happy about it.... ob veious ly :)

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