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Me and my fiancé currently live with his mom. We pay her 400$ a month in rent faithfully. My current issue with this situation is that she is irresponsible, childish, and doesn't respect our wishes. I've spoke to my fiancé on several occasions about what she is doing to really push me over the edge and all he says is "Until we move just keep your mouth shut and deal with it, idk what to tell you..." And that's it. I've told him maybe if we talk to her things will change but that has yet to happen. She currently takes meds and will take so much that while my fiancé was on the road working for a month she left a pot of noodles on the stove on high FOR HOURS! I'm currently 4 months pregnant and I woke up at around 2am to pee, and could smell something on fire! The noodles were so burnt the looked like collard greens and after I turned the stove off it smelt like burnt food for about another day in the home. She also smokes cigarettes in the house which we've complained about CONSTANTLY! Also we live in a apartment and our neighbors and us don't get along they have called police to our house 2 times in the 3 months I Have lived here with them. After we tell our mother in law we don't want those same people hanging out at our house they still appear on the porch hanging out with her. Also she is a MJ smoker (I use to be myself before my pregnancy) she will have her neighbor friend (female) over here all times of the day smoking pot. In the house, on the porch etc. The friend of hers will also show up early in the morning as 8:30-9:00 on a SUNDAY when me and my fiancé are asleep. Our dogs (2 Pitbulls and 1 Pomeranian) will bark like crazy until we answer the door after that they will proceed to conversate in front of our window (where the porch is) until we can no longer try to sleep. Its gotten to the point where also she will talk to his ex's frequently about us and how we are doing when its none of their concern in my opinion. Someone please help me, I need major advice, before I throw a major bitch fit. As much as I want to move my fiancé swears its just where we live and if we ALL move things will change. He's not getting the fact that I no longer want to live with his mother. I have no idea to say it without hurting him and if we don't move soon how do I cope with things?
Prego and GOING CRAZY ABOUT MY MIL!!!!!