Miscarriage

Tanya - posted on 03/03/2015 ( 3 moms have responded )

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My first baby was diagnosed as an eptopic pregnancy and they removed my tube and told me my other tube was also blocked so I would need IVF to conceive.
Within 6 years I had one live birth, my gorgeous son Cooper and then followed a molar pregnancy and a miscarriage at 8 weeks but not identified until the 12 week scan! These losses affected me more than anyone will ever know!! But I suffer guilt mourning these babies, knowing I was blessed with a live baby! It's not fair!! People think if you have a child then you shouldn't feel a miscarriage because some women don't get to have even one!! I still suffer my losses in silence!! It's so HARD!!

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DeAnna - posted on 03/03/2015

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I had two miscarriages a year apart. I don't have any children because I had to have a hysterectomy in my late 20's. There is nothing wrong with mourning the loss of those babies. I wonder what mine would look like, how they would be. I was 8 weeks with my first miscarriage and 13 weeks with my second. That was nearly 20 years ago and I still miss what might have been and I think I always will. I am glad you were able to have a child. There is no need to feel guilty because you mourn the ones you lost. Be blessed and love the one you have and always love the ones you lost. I hope you are able to stop feeling guilty. There is no reason to. Prayers for comfort for you.

Alberta Rose Lee - posted on 03/03/2015

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I know exactly how you feel and what your goin through. I suffered a miscarriage 3 yrs ago and I was 4 months along. The heart ache the wondering is never easy. But I'm thankful for my 6 yr old handsome Lil boy! My prayers are with you.

Chana - posted on 03/03/2015

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I have never suffered that loss and I will not pretend to know how you feel. I just wanted to say that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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