Missing My sweet angel~

Christie - posted on 02/26/2013 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I lost my first child at 3 days old nine years ago tomorrow and every day I miss him, but on his birthday I feel this pain that starts in the pit of my stomach and touches me to my core!!! Is this normal? I have to beautiful health girls I love to death but I miss my sweet angel Micah and still feel like there is huge gaping wound that reopens every year around his birthday :,( ant advice?

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Anita - posted on 02/27/2013

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Christie,
I am so sorry for your loss of your son but you are NOT alone I lost my son Austin at two days old and my goddaughter at age three (I was raising her) so trust me I know it is never going to get better you kind of just learn how to move through the days with the loss on your mind. I know that you have two WONDERFUL little girls and that should be the one thing in your life that keeps you going. Maybe around his birthday plan a family day or something like that to celebrate life. Remember you are not alone you can talk to me
shanita

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Anita - posted on 03/24/2013

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Christie,
You are welcome I am here to help and get help so I am happy to hear that I was some what helpful. Yes they are our angels and will always be there when we need them most I truly believe that. Thank you.

Christie - posted on 03/24/2013

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Shanita,

Thank you so much for your post! I am so so sorry for your losses :( I am thankful for my two girls they are the light at the end of the tunnel..... thank you for the ideas we do try to do that..... it is a challenge because my niece was born the day my son died, so my sister in law and I were pregnant at the same time and its a bitter sweet irony because its a constant reminder of my loss :( and I love her to pieces but it is so hard!!! if you ever need to chat I am also here to listen and read. Austin and Micah are our precious guardian angels and I hope that because of us they have found each other♥ thank you for letting me know I am not alone and I am sorry that you have to feel this pain too.
Christie

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