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Kathryn - posted on 12/19/2015 ( 5 moms have responded )

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a few months ago my son said my husband who was my bf at the time that he had touched him my daughter and my nephew when this came out my world was turned upside down , my son or daughter dont want me to get the police involved or anyone , ive tried to talk to them about it but they wont talk about it , i feel so helpless its making my health bad although this was supposed to happen to them they have gone places without me please help

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Jodi - posted on 12/20/2015

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You need to encourage them to report it for the sake of protecting other children.

Kathryn - posted on 12/20/2015

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17 and 19 they dont want me to do anything they said they want to forget about it and get on with their lives but i cant see how they can forget it im sure i cant im not with my husband and asnt for two years now but when i try and talk to them they just get aggresive and change subject they even told me different stories also changing story i asked them why they let me marry him if this had happened they said because i was happy and i was but if id known this then i still wouldnt of married him

Jodi - posted on 12/19/2015

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Actually, I want to add to this, even if they are now adults, you should report it anyway for the protection of any other child that is in his life.

Michelle - posted on 12/19/2015

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Like Jodi said, if they are children then you have to report it. You also have to leave your husband until it is proven either way. You are responsible for your children's safety.

Jodi - posted on 12/19/2015

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How old are your children? If they are not adults, you have an obligation to report it to the police; if they are adults, then it is their decision. Why don't they want it reported?

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