Mom at 44 in small city

Rhonda - posted on 10/24/2013 ( 2 moms have responded )

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Okay I was so excited about becoming a mom now it has been soured by numerous people assuming I'm the grandma in public. I was stunned that this would be an issue and am paranoid over my looks. I look 44 I know that. I just wanted to be a mom before a Grandma. Now I am self conscious someone will say it in public

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Jahnee Remedy - posted on 10/24/2013

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woow that's great my mother is a mother of 8kids my youngest sister being a lil over a year old an she is a grandmaother to my daughter who a lil over 2 now she also has the same issues as the ones up from the younger is 3 an the other 5 an then 10 an 12 an then 17 an then my brother 22 an then me 24.. She also fears pople will be able to point it out as the younger kids get older.. So long as which im very sure you are a great mum to your child why bother with what they think my mum use to say its what you know that matters an nothink else I say live life there are many people at your age that would give to be a mother by all means an some don't even get that chance.. Im sure your a beautiful person on the inside an that will shine on the outside.....xxxxxxx Good Luck!

Cheryl Lynn - posted on 10/24/2013

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I feel ur pain, im also 44with a 6yr old.and was once confused for grandma:(im sorry it really is ridiculous that people can be so ignorant and assume that your the grandma. Its something that you, myself and no one else should have to endure. Hang in there, im sure your a great mom, who cares what others think. Good luck:-)

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